By Stacy Kelly
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January 29, 2023
It is not uncommon for me to go through a series of treatment sessions with an individual, discover lines of tension relating to one or two particular organs, and get asked “why is it like that?” It’s a fair question. We all want to have a better and deeper understanding of our bodies. And sometimes, the answer is relatively simple: car accidents can negatively impact the lungs, the liver, and a wide host of ligamentous structures. Eating inflammatory foods can have a serious effect on the stomach and intestines. Even our posture can create tension around our kidneys or pelvic organs. But it is important to remember that our bodies are both miraculous and mystifying, and in keeping tone with the latter, sometimes the answer we search for is not so easily identified. Recently, I began working with a 33-year-old woman who, among other things, was experiencing bladder incontinence issues. She was a very active woman: jogging and participating in yoga every day, eating a healthy diet including plenty of water and teas and meal prepping every week. She maintained a regimented schedule at her job as a software engineer, alternating seated versus standing at her desk. No history of childbirths or other pelvic conditions. And while I commonly begin to expect at this point that I will find lines of tension that go from the problem area to another region in the body (the true point of origin), that was not the case here. All assessment led straight to the bladder. Furthermore, after 3 sessions of treatment with very little change in the bladder incontinence, both she and I were getting frustrated. That was when I realized I had been overlooking a major component of her health: her mind-body wellness. I began discussing with her the possibility of somatization – the production of physical symptoms as a result of mental or emotional trauma. In her case, the bladder is often associated with control, or the inability to let go. As her eyes changed from narrowed skepticism to wide-eyed comprehension, I saw that we might be on to something. She then began to openly discuss the very strict childhood upbringing she had, and how to this day it was important for her to get everything right, because that was how she minimized getting in trouble with her parents. It was how she controlled the narrative, and she took that habit into adulthood. This discussion was not exactly a revelation for her; she had discussed this at depth in therapy several years before but thought she had fully moved on from this maladaptive coping mechanism; her bladder however begged to differ. Soon after, by tailoring our treatment using different essential oils and herbs, and by her revisiting her techniques she learned from therapy years prior, we finally resolved the bladder incontinence issues. The idea of internalizing our emotions is nothing new. How long have we been using the idioms “butterflies in my stomach” to describe our nerves and anxiety, “having a gut feeling” when our intuition warns us of something, or we “swallow our pride” to accept something humiliating? Research and books exist out there that go further into the exploration of how our emotions can impact our physiological function, but I cannot recommend enough the book “Understanding the messages of your body: how to interpret physical and emotional signals to achieve optimal health” by Jean-Pierre Barral. In it, Barral explains the emotions that commonly get stored in our bodies and can lead to the development of very real, very challenging, physical conditions. Some of these include: The heart, and its connection to guilt, hatred, and excessive attachment The liver, and its connection to anger, rage, and a tendency towards pessimism The stomach, and its connection to poor self-esteem, social stress, and a fear of failure The kidneys, and their connection to reactive fear, abandonment issues, and insecurity * The body remembers our traumas, whether they be physical or emotional. In our effort to pursue good health, it should be remembered that our physical health can be a mirror into our emotional well-being…if only we can be brave enough to look. *from “Understanding the messages of your body: how to interpret physical and emotional signals to achieve optimal health” by Jean-Pierre Barral